Needle Play: I’m never like this when I’m not with you

Needle Play: I’m never like this when I’m not with you

In my monthly blog series ‘Needle Play’, I discuss some of my favourite records. This one’s on Chris & Cosey’s ‘Songs of Love and Lust’, with a slight tangent about Derek Jarman’s Jubilee. Art, sex, music Cosey Fanni Tutti...
Apprehension: A few words for newcomers

Apprehension: A few words for newcomers

My approach to domination is based around sustaining the state of ‘what’s coming next’ – it’s about the threat, the unknown. For new submissives, that sense of apprehension is the most exciting thing about dipping a toe in the cool waters...